![]() By understanding what abuse is, and defining it, it allows individuals who are experiencing abuse to be more honest with themselves about what is happening. This is what often happens when somebody is in an abusive relationship they will either convince themselves that what they experienced wasn’t actually abuse, or that it was their fault, and they are to blame for what happened (this allows them to believe they had some control/input into their experiences). One of the worst things for us to experience is shame, and so to not feel this crippling emotion, we will often try to rewrite what happened, or try to take control of what happened, by blaming ourselves. When individuals are subjected to a traumatic experience, they will often feel ashamed that they were unable to control the situation. One reason for doing this is that individuals involved in abusive relationships, often excuse or explain away their partner’s actions and behaviors, so that they don’t have to see themselves as a victim of abuse. This however is only one type of abuse that women can face, and it is worth taking some time to look at the different types and forms of abuse that can be experienced. When we think about abuse within a relationship, our minds normally turn to images of a woman being hit or battered by her partner. ![]() Fortunately, most potential boyfriends and partners are not such individuals - however apparent “Prince Charmings”, can have a dark side to them, and it is worth learning how to identify these individuals, before they start to express that side. This module looks at how to identify potentially abusive partners before you commit to being in a relationship with them, how you can end such relationships, and what the consequences of breaking up with such individuals may be. It is often unclear in the early days of such relationships, that they will turn toxic, and that you will be subjected to different types of abuse. Unfortunately, not everyone you may potentially meet and involve yourself with, will treat you with respect and as an equal. This may also involve developing sexual and intimate relationships with others. Module 2 - Abusive Partners & Stalkers Identifying Emotionally & Physically Abusive Partners & StalkersĬollege/University years should be formative ones, where you enjoy freedom to find out and develop who you are, away from the eyes of your parents and family.
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